Your thoughts on a threesome?

say your partner asks if you’re open for a threesome, would you do it?

like you’re a male and your partner is a girl – she likes to do it with you and another male
or if your partner is male and he likes to do it with you and another female …?

what would be the first thing that’ll come to your mind? not sure but im quite afraid this will ruin the trust of a long term relationship…

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I am usually really open to this idea at the beginning of a relationship. Once things start getting serious, I think of it as a danger. This could be because we all have our insecurities. I am a woman and I was already in a threesome with a guy and another girl. However, I had just began dating him and the whole thing didn’t last long anyway so I’m happy I did it. You never know what could happen, but in case of long relationships, a threesome may be seen as a threat regardless of the level of trust between the two.

I was looking for an active forum. I think this may be too light for the answer I’m wanting. Anyhow, let’s try.
Threesome. This is a first post for me. I’m trying to get feed back on what I really like but is hard to do with my current girl.
OK, I’m a guy that likes my girl friend to have sex with other guys. But I’m not comfortable asking her to do it. I don’t want her to feel like she has to do it just to please me. We have been together for just under a year and she has done at least twelve different guys, I think? The problem is she wears tight fitting clothes/pants that shows her off. She knows I love it because I ask her to wear it. It gets me going. And we get going. That’s when I start telling her to let another guy do her. She will say yes only if we stop mid-way and she wants me to “keep going” on myself while she is getting the other guy. I did this the first time she did another guy and she liked it. From there I used that on her. She always wore tight shorts or pants and no bra tops around everyone. That got me going so much I would get her in a room and did her until she agrees to have sex with who ever we were around. She knows I like it so much she had sex with four of our neighbors and many strangers. But always in another location. A change happened when we met two guys playing pool and I said I’d bet them we would bet them or they could both have sex with her. The second I finished saying it she said Yea I’ll do that. I knew that she wanted it. Needless to say I was so hard I couldn’t play well and I know she missed easy shots. Next time I know she is getting tag teamed by two guys in the weight room. I loved it. Two weeks ago She did a random guy at a bar with out me asking. Then I did her in the car but before I finished she said she wanted more guys. She did another guy at a gas station then one at a porno store. I loved that more. That is why I think she is trying to please me. She will do anything I like. Should I continue?

She seems to have a lot of fun. However, where do you want your relationship with her to go? I wouldn’t take you seriously if I knew you wanted me to fuck other guys constantly. If you just want to have fun, I think she’s a great match for as long as she wants to have fun too. Some women might think you care less if you want them to get fucked by others. Also, she might develop a sort of complex regarding the thing that turns you on. For example, she might think that she cannot arouse you if you’re alone and just want to fuck without getting others involved. Ask yourself where do you want this to go. If you don’t have real plans or feeling, just go with the flow and have as much fun as possible!

Yep, that is a great point. I’m in for fun. But there is a longer point to it. Gotta focus on the end deal. Thanks for the tip.

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Do you have any updates? Maybe some spicy stories for us?

I want to know what happened too!

So what happened, man? I realize this was long ago, but it’s fresh news for me.

He won’t reply, he’s happy now, he doesn’t need us

I had my share of threesomes and I don’t think they should be part of relationships.

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